Free will is a gift. It’s your ability to choose how you think, how you act, and how you respond to life. But not everyone uses it well.
The difference between the woman living in alignment, thriving in her relationships, her calling, her finances, and the one still trying to get there often comes down to one thing: how she exercises her will.
This is the mindset shift that changed everything for me.
1. take inventory
If you want to use your will effectively, you have to be honest about where you stand.
Take a clear look at the major areas of your life:
Health – Are you nourishing and moving your body in a way that supports your energy and confidence?
Wealth – Are you managing your money, building toward something, or just getting by?
Beauty – Are you taking care of yourself in a way that feels expressive and empowered?
Relationships – Are they healthy, honest, and mutual?
Friendships – Do they uplift you, challenge you, and grow with you?
Career – Does it reflect your calling or just your obligations?
Spiritual life – Are you walking with God, or just checking in when things fall apart?
2. understand that your thoughts are the bridge
Your life follows your thoughts. If something is off in your outer world, it’s because your inner world isn’t aligned.
Everywhere you want to go requires a mental bridge to get there and thoughts are the building blocks.
Casual, scattered thoughts won’t support a strong foundation. You need repetition. Reinforcement. Intention.
“Guard your heart, for from it flow the issues of life.” Proverbs 4:23 Your heart shapes your reality. Your will gives it direction.
Anywhere you're not living at your full potential, your free will has gone unused or misdirected. It’s not a judgment it’s an opportunity.
3. master the principle of execution
Execution is where most people stall. They believe the vision they have but don’t act like it.
You don’t get results from ideas. You get results from movement. You don’t get fit by thinking about fitness. You get fit by working out. You don’t build a business by journaling about abundance. You build it by taking steps daily.
Faith without works is dead. So is a mindset without motion.
4. speak what you want to see
God didn’t just give you thoughts, He gave you words. And your words carry authority. Every time you speak, you’re either reinforcing doubt or reinforcing destiny God’s way.
Start speaking life with intention:
“This launch is a success.”
“The right people find me at the right time.”
“I attract what aligns with my purpose.”
“I always have more than enough.”
Words shape atmosphere. And what you consistently declare, you eventually live. Often sooner than you think.
5. choose your perspective on purpose
Free will gives you the power to decide how you see the world. You can interpret challenges as setbacks, or as training. You can see people as obstacles, or as mirrors. You can choose fear, or you can choose faith. You don’t need permission to shift your perspective. You just need discipline.
6. don’t let the past define the present
The fact that something didn’t work before doesn’t mean it won’t work now. Failure is feedback. It teaches, but it doesn’t define. Your past is information. Your will decides what happens next.
7. stick with God girl
The strongest use of free will is to stay connected to the One who gave it to you.
A relationship with Jesus Christ doesn’t limit your freedom, it aligns it. It sharpens your discernment. It protects your peace. It keeps your purpose on track.
There is no better investment than a consistent walk with the One who sees what you can’t. The version you who you don’t even know yet.
at the end of the DAY
The girl who uses her free will to her greatest advantage isn’t just dreaming of the life she wants, she’s building it. Thought by thought. Step by step. Word by word.
And the results speak for themselves.
🍉 "I align my thoughts, words, and actions with the life God has called me to live. Nothing in me sabotages what He’s building through me."
🍑 "I use my free will to choose discipline, clarity, and joy daily. I am not led by fear, emotion, or distraction I’m led by purpose."
🍋 "Everything I speak, I see. My words create alignment, momentum, and overflow in every area of my life."
