Your Weekly Affirmations
are here mon ✨cherie✨
Affirmations 🤍
Monday: I am elegant, graceful, and kind to all that is.
Tuesday: I allow my creativity to flow through me freely.
Wednesday: The life I desire most is within me.
Thursday: God, lift me up.
Friday: I am open to divine guidance.
Saturday: I am a servant to pure love and pure love alone.
Sunday: My heart is open to I give freely.
Let’s talk about sex 🍑
I’m going to share something deeply personal with all 2,000ish of you so don’t f*cking tell anyone this is a Self Hug Club esloosive. 🙄
I’ve spent the bulk of my life actively disassociating from my physical body because I didn’t want to be in it. It was too black, my boobs were too big, my butt wasn’t BBL-ified (I viscerally remember wanting Nicki’s body when she was in Young Money we were down horrendous that’s my Queen though fr idfw Lizzie 🙄), my natural hair wasn’t long enough - the whole host of it. Tbh I wasn’t a fan of my body or my features until college maybe? Or like 2020? Either way, my inability to honor this beautiful vessel I reside in, a 2-year situationship, and persistent disordered eating patterns, only further reinforced this disconnection.
A funny thing happens when you’re disconnected from your physical body. You don’t allow yourself to feel pleasure. Usually out of fear. Fear of rejection, fear of abandonment, fear of existing, or fear of identity - it could be anything. I feel really called to share all of this with you today and I’d be silly to ignore it.
When you restrict your pleasure experience, your relationship with your sensuality and sexuality becomes incredibly strained. You don’t water your creative garden. You don’t stop to admire and take pleasure in the world around you. You don’t savor. You don’t enjoy creating, you’re unclear of what to manifest “next”. You block yourself from honoring your own sexual energy. Your sexuality becomes something for everyone else but you. You don’t have sex, solo or otherwise, for the pleasure of expressing your sexual energy, of experiencing it…you do either with only the goal of finishing in mind. Or receiving love or praise outside of yourself because fear has blocked your natural ability to receive those things from within you.
It’s not the vibe. Anyway, here are some ways I’ve personally been rebalancing my sacral chakra, my pleasure center, my energetic womb of creation, if you will.
Feel free to do your own research too :)
Savoring. If you savor the food you eat, the activities you participate in, how you spend your time, only then can you truly understand the concept of enough. Enough food, enough time, enough joy. You become a natural conduit for gratitude energy to flow through you.
Subliminals. This one is incredible. I feel so sensual listening to it so I know it works. All six of my senses heighten in awareness and I, throughout its duration, become intensely present.
Creating. Make something! I made a bracelet the other day, I did a Polynesian dance lesson this morning, I’m singing again, and cooking + preparing beautiful food. Create something - anything.
Mindful self-care. Instead of quickly lotioning or doing my skincare routine, I’m slowing down. Like really slowing down. If I pay someone to massage my body monthly, maybe I should do the same to myself more frequently. Give it a try, go slowly, and really feel yourself.
Tantra. Explore as you feel guided always.
Things I bought recently 💳
Holy grail for hyperpigmentation
Ylang-ylang for my sacral chakra. I just puta bit on my collarbones before going to sleep
Obsessed with Olipop right now especially and specifically this flavor
Rose Quartz ring for a lil love reminder
Closing time 🥑
A channeled message:
It’s coming. It’s yours. April, May, August, January. Real love, real experiences, believe not what your eyes perceive.
Love you all so much happy new week. <3