you might just be a husband's girl
calling all eldest daughters, middle children, and emotionally neglecte-
I just discovered this. I had no idea it was a thing. And it's literally - like, you have mommy's girls and you have daddy's girls, right? Mommy's girls are like... you know what? I don't know. Oh my god, okay. But I kinda, maybe... like, I'd have to think deeper about that.
But then there's daddy's girls, obviously. That's like, her hero. And then I guess now - like, I didn't even know about this - it's called like, a husband's girl. Like, he's like, the go-to.
Isn't that like, not really what it's supposed to be? But I don't know. It just had me thinking because you know what? I think that's what I am because like, even now that I'm like, super single (okay? I'm like, whispering), but like, everything they're describing? Like, I am a true husband's girl.
Like, I will literally be obsessed with them, and that's why my standards are so high. Because:
It takes a lot for me to respect someone
You have to be sent by God
You have to be, because you'll do real life if you're not sent by God
And if you derail my life, you'll derail my children's life. And that just seems like enumeration of a problem that could have been avoided.
So like, I have already like, a very high bar of respect. This person, I know the right person is gonna fill it.
Just got me thinking - like, don't be a boyfriend's girl. Be a husband's girl. Because what you really want at the end of the day? Biologically, women are wired to want partnership, a real partnership, and if you want that partnership under the covering of sin? Like, girl, of course you're gonna be miserable. Of course things aren't gonna work for you. Of course it's gonna be like half of what you could be experiencing under covenant.
Like, you think marriage is just like a fun idea? There's spiritual benefit to it. Hello.
So like, I don't know. Are you a husband's girl? I think I'm a husband's girl. Yeah.