Where Will You Meet Your Soulmate?
A Choose-Your-Own-Adventure Quiz
happy friday diva,
I’m currently typing this in the passenger princess seat, hotspot and all, but I HAD to get this to you today.
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Where Will You Meet Your Soulmate?
A Choose-Your-Own-Adventure Quiz
Start at Question 1. Pick A or B, follow the arrow. Don’t overthink it.
♡ Question 1
Think about the last time you felt truly seen by someone. What made it feel that way?
A) They asked the right question at the right time. Not a surface question. A real one. → Go to Question 2
B) They didn’t say much at all. They just stayed. → Go to Question 3
♡ Question 2
Be honest. When you imagine the man God has for you, what scares you more?
A) That I’ll have to become smaller to fit into his life → Go to Question 4
B) That I’ll let my guard down and he’ll be careless with it → Go to Question 5
♡ Question 3
When God is working on something in your life, how does it usually show up?
A) Disruption. He pulls the rug out and I realize later it was a redirect. → Go to Question 6
B) Repetition. The same word, the same theme, the same nudge, over and over until I finally pay attention. → Go to Question 7
♡ Question 4
You’ve been the most driven person in the room more times than you can count. How does that actually feel?
A) Lonely. I want someone operating at my speed, not someone I have to drag along. → Go to your result: ✈️ New York City
B) Powerful but exhausting. I don’t need someone to match me. I need someone who makes me want to sit down. → Go to your result: ✈️ Rio de Janeiro
♡ Question 5
How do you pray about love these days?
A) I’ve stopped asking for specifics. I just ask God to prepare me for whoever it is. → Go to your result: [✈️ London]
B) I pray detailed prayers. I believe God honors specificity and I ask for exactly what I want. → Go to Question 8
♡ Question 6
What’s the real reason your last season of love didn’t work?
A) I was performing a version of myself that wasn’t real. Eventually the act got too heavy. → Go to your result: [✈️ Cape Town]
B) It wasn’t bad. It just wasn’t right. And I’ve learned those aren’t the same thing. → Go to your result: [✈️ Split, Croatia]
♡ Question 7
If God told you tomorrow that your person was already in your life, would you believe Him?
A) Yes. Something in me has been sensing that for a while now. → [Go to your result: 📍 The City You’re Already In]
B) Honestly? No. I would need proof. I’ve been let down too many times. → [Go to Question 9]
♡ Question 8
When you picture your love story, is it something you’ve been building toward or something that blindsides you?
A) Building toward. Every lesson, every heartbreak, every prayer was preparation for this. → Go to your result: [✈️ Cape Town]
B) I think it blindsides me. I think God does something I never would have planned. → Go to your result: [✈️ Split, Croatia]
♡ Question 9
What do you need to hear most right now?
A) That it’s okay to want this. That wanting love doesn’t make me desperate or less faithful. → Go to your result: [✈️ Rio de Janeiro]
B) That the wait isn’t wasted. That God hasn’t forgotten this part of my life. → Go to your result: [✈️ London]
YOUR RESULTS
★ London 🇬🇧
You need to be known before you’re loved.
You’ve been the strong one for a long time. The capable one. The one people lean on. And somewhere in that, you learned to keep your deepest stuff out of reach. Not because you don’t want closeness. Because you’ve seen what happens when the wrong person gets access.
London is grey and cold half the year and people go back anyway. You walk the same streets five times and still find something you missed. That’s the kind of love God has for you. Not the flashy kind. The kind that shows up on a random Tuesday and stays through the boring parts. He’s the man who asks the follow-up question. You give the rehearsed answer and he says, “okay but what do you actually mean?” And the first time you let him have the real answer and he just sits there, steady, you’ll feel something shift that you can’t name yet.
God is not in a hurry with your heart. Neither is this man. “Be still, and know that I am God.” — Psalm 46:10
★ Split, Croatia 🇭🇷
“For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord.” — Jeremiah 29:11
You’ve done the work. Now God does something you didn’t ask for.
You’re not the same woman you were two years ago and you know it. You did the therapy. The journaling. The hard conversations with yourself and with God. You let go of the picture in your head. And because you let go of it, there’s finally room for something better.
Split is the city you’ve never heard of. You see the name and think “where is that?” He comes from a direction you weren’t watching. He doesn’t match the list you wrote at 22, and that’s what makes him right. He fits the woman you actually became.
It happens in an ordinary moment, by the way. You’re laughing at something stupid or lost in a neighborhood you don’t recognize. No slow-motion eye contact. No soundtrack. You’ll tell the story later and it’ll sound like nothing, and you’ll both know it was everything.
★ Rio de Janeiro 🇧🇷
You’ve been turning the volume down on yourself. Stop it.
At some point you picked up the idea that wanting big, consuming, ridiculous love was too much. That good Christian women want something quieter than that. That the ache in your chest for something passionate means you’re being dramatic.
That’s a lie.
God made you to feel things at full blast. Rio is loud and bright and warm and nobody there is apologizing for it. Your soulmate finds you there because he’s the man who walks into your fullness and exhales. He’s been looking for someone who doesn’t need everything to be measured and moderate. He sees your tears and your joy and your big prayers and your big laugh and he just... stays.
You have permission to want this. “She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.” — Proverbs 31:25
★ Cape Town 🇿🇦
You’re done with shallow.
Done with surface friendships. Done with “what are we” conversations that go nowhere. Done with men who think “I’m spiritual” counts as depth. You’ve been swimming in the deep end for a while now and the honest truth is it gets lonely out there. You start wondering if anybody else goes this far.
Your soulmate is the man who has his own relationship with God that you didn’t build for him. He prays on his own. He reads on his own. He’s been doing the work in private the same way you have, and you’ll realize that the first time you hear him pray out loud. He’s not performing for you. That’s just how he talks to God.
Cape Town because it’s a city where the sacred sits right next to the wild. Table Mountain on one side, the ocean on the other, and somehow it holds. That’s what your love looks like. Two people who came to the table already whole. They don’t need each other. They chose each other. There’s a difference and you’ve always known it.
“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.” — 1 Peter 4:8
★ New York City 🇺🇸
You don’t need saving. You need a partner.
You are tired. Not of love. Of being the most ambitious person in every relationship you’ve been in. Of explaining your five-year plan to someone who doesn’t think past the weekend. Of watching a man’s face shift when he realizes you might be more driven than he is. You know exactly what that face looks like. You’ve seen it enough times.
He meets you mid-stride. He’s not on the sideline clapping. He’s in his own lane, building his own thing, and the two of you lock eyes because you recognize something. Same work ethic. Same 6 a.m. mornings. Same refusal to settle for a version of life that’s smaller than what God promised.
He doesn’t tell you to relax. He doesn’t call you intense like it’s a diagnosis. He matches your pace all week and he’s the reason you actually rest on the weekends. New York because where else would you be? You were never going to meet your person standing still.
“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor.” — Ecclesiastes 4:9
★ The City You’re Already In 📍
Look around.
You’ve been treating love like something that lives on the other side of a major life change. After the move. After the glow-up. After the next season of growth. And God is saying turn around. “The Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” — Joshua 1:9
He might be someone you already know. Someone you wrote off because the timing was wrong or you had him filed under “friend” and never revisited. Or he’s a stranger at the place you go every week. Same coffee shop. Same church row. Same Wednesday night.
Your love story doesn’t need a plane ticket. It needs you to look up.
Which city did you get? Reply and tell me. I want to know. 💌
Our 30 Day Prayer
THE NEW CREATION DECLARATION
2 Corinthians 5:17
If anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: the old has gone, the new is here!
Thank You, Jesus, that I am a new creation in Christ. Thank You that the old is gone, the new is here. I put on my new identity in Christ in the name of Jesus.
I make my body, my flesh, and my soul subject to who I am in the Spirit. I make it subject to who I am in my new nature.
The light of life lives inside of me.
The light of life lives inside of my atoms at a molecular level.
The Holy Spirit radiates out of me.
In Jesus’ name, I am a new creation.
I put off the old identity.
I put off the old self in which I’ve been programmed to believe that I am all my life.
I put it off and I put on the new self.
I put on the righteousness of God.
All memories, all traumas, and all sin cycles stop when I declare that I’m a new creation.
All sin cycles stop when I put on my new identity.
All sin cycles stop when I put on the robes of righteousness.
All sin cycles stop when I put on the helmet of salvation and the crown in which I rule from because I am seated in heavenly places.
I walk in power and authority in the name of Jesus.
I walk as a new creature.
It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me.
In the Spirit, I am seated in heavenly places right now.
I am a co-heir in Christ. Everything in the Father’s house I have access to.
I have access to healing, and I declare healing over my body.
I have access to provision and finances, so I declare finances and provision to do the will of the Father.
I have access to health and wholeness in my body, so I declare health and wholeness over my entire being.
I have access to divine knowledge, so I declare divine knowledge over my mind — knowledge over people’s situations, supernatural insight as to strongholds that are trying to come over my life and trying to create confusion.
I have that divine insight, intel, and discernment that comes from Holy Spirit because I am seated in heavenly places.
I am a royal priesthood.
That means I have authority in the name of Jesus. I’m not just saved, but I have authoritative divine power in the realm of the Spirit to make things on earth as it is in heaven.
Even though my default programming has been to rely on my emotions, my circumstances, how I feel, my lack, my health, anxiety, demonic attacks, people leaving, and opportunities not working, I no longer identify with those things because I am a royal priesthood, a co-heir with Christ, and a new creation.
Therefore, my life on earth looks drastically different than it used to look.
In the name of Jesus, I put off my mind and I put on the mind of Christ.
We have the mind of Christ.
I declare right now that I no longer struggle to hear from God, because the mind of Christ does not struggle to hear from the Lord.
I do not struggle with prophetic knowledge, because the mind of Christ does not struggle with prophetic knowledge.
So I put off my carnal mind, I separate it from my body, and I put on the righteous, glorious, pure mind of Christ.
When the Father looks at me, He sees purity.
When the Father looks at me, He sees His Son.
So right now, in the name of Jesus, I put on the mind of Christ.
I declare I can hear Holy Spirit.
I can hear the voice of the Father.
I can hear the voice of Jesus.
I can understand their personalities.
I can understand their unique identities.
Because it’s no longer my thoughts that are popping up, it is God’s thoughts and God’s voice that is speaking into my mind, not my own thoughts.
I am a new creation, and I declare that I will walk in that power and authority today.
We take dominion and power over every principality suffocating our minds and our hearts, tormenting us with memory of past sin, past trauma, and past cycles.
We take hold of that in the Spirit and submit it to the feet of Jesus and declare freedom and deliverance in Jesus’ name.
I tear down any carnal intellectual arguments about who we are in Christ in the Spirit.
I tear down the structures of intellectualism by walking in power and authority.
And though life is uncertain, I walk in a certainty that Jesus died and rose again, and His blood is completely washing over my being every minute of today.
I submit my emotions, how I feel, the cloud of doubt, and the fog of fear at the feet of Jesus, and I choose right now to no longer live from that paradigm.
In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, I command my body and my soul to awaken to my new nature and to walk in that power and authority for the rest of the day.
In Jesus’ name,
Amen.
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