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10 Signs You're Operating From Your Him (Her?) Jong Un Energy as you SHOULD!
Have you ever wondered why some people seem to effortlessly attract the right relationships, opportunities, and resources while others constantly chase and beg for scraps? The difference often lies in whether you're operating from your inner "king spirit" or from a place of lack. Here's how to know which energy you're embodying:
1. You Make Decrees, Not Pleas
King Spirit: When you want something, you speak it as though it's already yours. Your words carry the weight of expectation, not desperation.
Begging Energy: You find yourself constantly explaining why you deserve something, trying to convince others of your worth.
2. You Walk Away Without Drama
King Spirit: When a situation, relationship, or opportunity doesn't honor your value, you exit quietly—not as manipulation, but because you know who you are.
Begging Energy: You stay in situations that diminish you, hoping they'll eventually improve if you just try harder or wait longer.
3. You Create Value Before Expecting Returns
King Spirit: You focus on what you bring to the table rather than what you can take from it. You understand that value attracts value.
Begging Energy: You expect things from people and places where you haven't invested or created anything of substance.
4. Your Boundaries Don't Need Explanation
King Spirit: You set clear boundaries without over-justifying them. Your "no" is complete without apology.
Begging Energy: You feel guilty about having boundaries and often compromise them to keep people happy or present.
5. You Expect Resources to Flow, Not Trickle
King Spirit: You live with an open hand, knowing that resources come from an unlimited source, not limited people.
Begging Energy: You hoard opportunities and resources out of fear there won't be enough, creating the very scarcity you fear.
6. You Respond Rather Than React
King Spirit: When challenges arise, you respond with composure. Your peace isn't dependent on perfect circumstances.
Begging Energy: You're easily triggered by setbacks, often overreacting because each one feels like a threat to your security.
7. You Give From Overflow, Not Obligation
King Spirit: You give generously without calculating the return, because your identity isn't tied to what you have but who you are.
Begging Energy: Your giving comes with hidden strings or resentment because you're giving from perceived lack.
8. Your Standards Are Non-Negotiable
King Spirit: You don't lower your standards to accommodate those who aren't willing to rise. You'd rather be alone than compromised.
Begging Energy: You regularly adjust your expectations downward, telling yourself "this is just how things are."
9. Your Worth Isn't Up For Debate
King Spirit: You don't argue with people about how they should treat you. Their treatment of you reflects their character, not your value.
Begging Energy: You constantly try to prove your worth through accomplishments, appearance, or approval-seeking behavior.
10. You Focus on Becoming, Not Getting
King Spirit: Your primary focus is on developing who you are, knowing that everything else will follow naturally from that foundation.
Begging Energy: You're fixated on what you don't have, spending more energy on getting than becoming.
Remember: You don't chase, you attract. You don't beg, you become. The king spirit within you—placed there by the King of kings—already contains everything needed for your destiny. It's not about convincing others to see your worth. It's about being so aligned with your true identity that the right people, opportunities, and resources can't help but be drawn to you.
What's one area where you can shift from begging energy to king spirit this week? Start there, and watch how your world responds.
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"This April, I will not merely exist but truly live, walking in the fullness of my God-given calling." (Based on John 10:10)
"As I seek first the Kingdom of God this month, all that I need will be added unto me according to His riches in glory." (Based on Matthew 6:33)
"The Lord is making me great, blessing me, and making my name great so that I can be a blessing to others this April." (Based on Genesis 12:2)
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reading 📖: Against All Odds by C.W. Farnsworth
eating 🥗: (drinking?) Brodo bone broth!
playing 🎧: this prayer on repeat
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You Don't Beg, You Become.
You know that common phenomenon where a girl begs a guy to treat her a certain way, give her certain things, essentially do more than he does or is doing? And one of two things happens, she either leaves, or puts up with it for life. Whatever it is. It’s because she doesn’t realize what’s inside of her, and how to use it to get what she actually wants. …
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