The 2026 Top Secret Girlie Code

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Dec 17, 2025

Let it (everything) be easy

You have to start believing that life can be incredibly easy for you, if you let it. I didn’t say that life can be incredibly quick for you, or instant, but I did say easy. Easeeee.

Releasing your shoulders, the tension you hold in your hips and mind and thoughts, the million to-do lists you have going at any given time or the existential dread that pops up when you’re doing a little bit of nothing.

Life is supposed to be easy for you.

Just because life felt hard before doesn’t mean it has to. Anything you make a demand on, or insist on, manifests itself, because the spirit of God lives in you. This isn’t some weird woo woo concept. It’s God’s will for your yoke to be light. Therefore if you insist on feeling like it is, it will be. The word of God has to fulfill itself.

Let it be easy. Let everything be easy. Let it all be easy. It was never that serious, and it will never be that serious.

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2026 is for the girls who want to leave all the bad things behind and prioritize themselves

Okay so think of this as the prequel. Before we get into the deep comprehensive planning stuff, consider this your appetizer. A quick, powerful recipe to help you build momentum for 2026 before the year even starts.

The goal? Simple. Start the year well by laying groundwork now.

Any great year is built on the core pillars of our lives. And this guide gives you the initial framework for gaining early mastery over three essential areas: your physical health, your mental growth, and your spiritual well-being.

Before you can chart a new course, you have to understand where you are right now. A year-end audit gives you the clarity you need to plan well. It means taking an honest look at where you are across every area of your life.

And this isn’t about judgment, it’s about awareness. Awareness is the first step toward real change.

Your Body

Start by reflecting on your physical well-being over the past year. How have you felt physically? What has your energy been like? This check-in gives you a baseline for the improvements you’ll make next.

Your Mind and Wealth

Next, look at your mental and money. These two are deeply connected because your mindset often shapes your financial outcomes. Ask yourself:

What did you commit to learning this year? Beyond social lessons, what concrete knowledge did you gain? Did you learn a new skill or a new language? Did you go to school or go back to school? What did your hands find you do?

And how did you do with money? Take an honest look at your financial health over the last twelve months.

Your Soul and Service

Finally, check in on your inner world and your contribution to others.

How is your soul? Did you nurture your spirit?

Did you give of yourself? Did you help anyone or volunteer somewhere? What did you do for others? Because that’s what love is all about, anyway.

In what ways did you offer value to the world?

With this clear-eyed assessment, you can now apply this 3-ingredient recipe (Code?) not as a generic plan, but as a direct response to the areas you’ve identified for growth.

This three-part recipe addresses your body, mind, and soul. And its power isn’t in complexity. It’s in simplicity. It’s in the incredible momentum you build through consistent, daily action.

Button 1: Strengthen Your Body

Your first ingredient is a two-part approach to physical wellness. And it creates a powerful psychological shift.

Choose a structured program. Commit to a specific physical challenge. This could be anything from a 25 days with Izzy my girl, to training for a 5K run. Whether you become a Pilates warrior or take on a Peloton challenge, having a structured program is key.

Pair it with a specific eating regimen. Complement your physical challenge with a clearly defined eating plan.

This combination of a training program and a specific diet does something really slept on. It tricks your brain into thinking you’re training for something. And you are lowkey. You’re training to live your best life this year.

Button 2: Stimulate Your Mind

Ingredient two is non-negotiable. You must commit to learning something new this year.

In an era where knowledge is everywhere, there’s no excuse to limit your learning. You have every resource available, YouTube, ChatGPT, courses, books, to learn skills, languages, or interesting facts.

And the benefit is more than practical. It’s deeply personal. The act of learning is good for your skin. It makes you glowwwwwwwww from within.

Button 3: Feed Your Soul

Finally, you must feed your soul. Your spirit needs food, girl. Gotta figure it out.

The final piece of the recipe is to nourish your spirit through a daily practice. The specific discipline matters less than its consistency.

Commit to a daily practice. What are you going to do every day? This could be reading Proverbs in 31 days or dedicating time to read the book of Esther every day. Find a spiritual discipline that resonates with you and commit to it without fail.

This simple three-part recipe gives you the what of your jumpstart plan. Now let’s explore the why, the underlying principle that makes it all work.

The single most critical factor for success in this plan, the whole gag here, is momentum.

Each ingredient in this recipe is specifically designed to build and sustain it. And the core philosophy is simple:

Anything you do consistently, without pause, without break, builds momentum.

Momentum is what changes things. It’s what changes direction.

By starting these practices now, you begin the year with positive, forward motion. Think about it like physics. An object in motion stays in motion. An object at rest stays at rest.

You don’t want to start the year slow, forcing yourself to exert massive energy just to get going. You want to start the year well, carried by the momentum you’re building today.