it's time to get what you want

let me show you how

May 07, 2025

how to get whatever you want (for real)

Allo, we’re not gonna sugarcoat this. You're scrolling your feed seeing people living their dream life while you're still grinding with nothing to show for it? The difference isn't luck. It's that they've mastered the art of asking for what they want.

You've got to stop being just a good worker and start being a good asker. That's literally it. That's the whole secret.

1. just ask

You want money? Ask for it. Promotion? Ask for it. Better relationship? Ask for it.

Asking starts this whole crazy process that nobody fully understands but everyone who's winning is using. It's like pushing a button and watching what you want happen.

What are you still waiting for permission to ask for? Ask small get small or something to that effect.

2. be freaking specific

"I want more money" gets you nowhere. "I want $80k more by December" gives the the angels God set around you something to work with.

When you ask, spell it out clearly:

Exactly how much
By when exactly
What it looks like
Why you need it

No one knows you’re hungry if you don’t say so. Let the redeemedd of the Lord do what? SAY SOOOOO sis omg. This goes for anything, not just finances. Been had my husband mapped in my head and prayers from time okay. Be specific.

3. you’re a child (act like it)

Remember when you were little and just believed you could be an astronaut-princess-veterinarian-marine biologist? Channel THAT energy. Plan like the responsible adult you are, but believe like you haven't been beaten down by life yet. The combo is unstoppable.

Next time you doubt yourself, ask: "What would I do if the version of me in Christ has already won this level? Has already completed this thing? Has already done this and more?" Then do exactly that.

4. expect a lot sis

Success is an ocean and you're showing up with a tiny spoon wondering why you're still thirsty. Some people are out here with buckets, trucks, and whole pipelines while you're scared to ask for more than a drop. Embarrassing!!

Expand that vision. The ocean never runs out. Think bigger. Then think bigger again. If you’re not thinking big you’re keeping yourself stuck. Think of it this way. There are over 8 Billion people in the world, 2.4B are Christian. Jesus isn’t coming until we got our numbers way up okay. Like……..if the Holy Spirit’s mindset is BIG what in God’s green Earth, makes you think yours is supposed to be small. Wake up. Stop dilly dallying. Think bigger. I’m not even asking you to act yet, just think bigger.

5. actually do something

Alright now I’m asking lmao. Talk is cheap. After you ask for what you want, you better be ready to back it up with action. AFTER, you pray about it.

Commit to your goal for 90 days straight. No excuses, no breaks. That's it. You can always go back to being mediocre on day 91 if this whole "getting what you want" thing doesn't work out.

You wanna end every quarter with something you’ve done for YOU. Something you’ve built for YOU. Something that advances God’s Kingdom.

Relax diva, you're literally hot & fun to be around. If you mess up today, you can always start again tomorrow. But for real though, the formula is embarrassingly simple: ASK and start receiving.

And I just feel the need to say this:

if any of you are letting your energy be eaten up for BREAKFAST! by a loser

make sure you’ve appraised your value correctly, you’re not insecure, you’re confident, you don’t need external validation, you know exactly who you are and where you stand in Christ, and you have bigger things to tend to than playing God your’e bad at it anyway give it up lol

Everyday, in every way I become more and more of the girl God knows.I think how she thinks, I have what she has, I go where she goes, I do what she does, I live how she lives.