Most of the DMs and emails I’ve gotten over the last, not one but two, weeks have been about relationships or dating or the related. Which, if we’re being honest, isn’t unusual, the gift of discernment is trulyy a gift God has given me (and you if you’d idk..ask)
But what threw me and didn’t set me down was when my homegirl came with the same! Something is in the water and I’m here to take it out before it ruins all the fish in the sea for you.
This week’s column is a public service announcement. A little intervention if you will to make sure you don’t spend the next two months mentally moodboarding a man into your timeline, your prayer journal, and your 2026 vision board who won’t even see the end of next week. Get a hobby or something (with love).
Here’s how to know he’s just that into you:
1. He Tells You
2. He Shows You
3. He Tells You Again
hope this helps.
Okay but seriously, it sounds simple, but it’s not.
(don’t forget to send me your wedding invites)
1. I am proud of what I did today because I used my and did what I wanted with it
2. I am very pretty and everything I think about me is true, positive, and amazing so my life is like that too
3. I am so generous and kind and open and loving
the book of Proverbs girl something about the air changing makes me not wanna be stupid
Reading I’ll Always Be With You by Monica Murphy and its beautiful
I mention this once ever few months because I can’t recommend it enough but this is the best packaged bone broth on the market bro so good spicy and just wow can’t say enough good things
A bit obsessed with having baby soft skin and this Vaesline lotion actually leaves my skin glowing on top of being soft for hours on hours
my Nuface is also charging as I type this haven’t touched it in a minute but in the mood for cheekbones
Speaking of cheekbones, I’ve heard nothing but good things about the Victoria Beckham beauty foundation drops
