Hobbies with Benefits
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Where you invest your time shows in what your life looks like. Hobbiesss are an excellent use of free will, much better than brain rotting or scrolling until Kingdom come. So here are 7 hobbies that will not only make you more interesting, but hotter.
Hobby #1 Beauty Research
You know when you go down those rabbit holes researching skincare ingredients at 2am? Like you’re comparing niacinamide percentages or trying to figure out if you need vitamin C or azelaic acid for your hyperpigmentation? Or what kind of foundation matches your specific skin texture and undertone? Or what looks look good with your facial structure?
Being obsessed with yourself, and learning new things in relation to yourself, releases dopamine. And the more you do this, the more your brain starts linking “learning about myself” with “feeling good.”
So over time, you naturally become someone who invests in herself, not because you’re insecure, but because you genuinely enjoy it. And people can tell the difference. There’s something magnetic about a girl who clearly knows what she’s doing, who can casually explain why something works.
You become the person everyone asks for advice when it comes to looking good and anyone generous is attractive.
Hobby #2 Fermentation, Pickling & Roasting
This might sound weird, but stay with me. When you’re making your own kimchi (or kimchi pancakes) or pickling vegetables or spending an hour roasting things until they’re perfectly caramelized, you’re doing something most people can’t do anymore, you’re waiting.
You’re letting things take the time they need to develop flavor. And every single time you do that instead of rushing, you’re training your brain to be okay with delayed gratification. That’s the same part of your brain that helps you not spiral when he doesn’t text back immediately, or helps you stick with your goals even when you’re not seeing results yet.
People are so attracted to patience because it’s gentle. Who doesn’t love gentility?
When you’re someone who can slow down, who doesn’t need everything right this second, it’s calming to be around you. Plus, cooking is super sensory, you’re smelling, tasting, feeling textures, and all of that wakes up different parts of your brain at once, making you more present and emotionally aware. That presence shows up in how you talk to people, how you handle situations, everything.
Hobby #3 Pilates or Dance
Pilates isn’t just about getting toned (though that’s nice too). When you’re doing Pilates, you’re constantly thinking about where your body is, like, is my core engaged? Is my spine neutral? Am I breathing right? You’re building this internal awareness of your own body in space. Studies show that when you improve your posture (which Pilates does naturally!!), it actually changes your hormones.
Your confidence hormone goes up, your stress hormone goes down. So you’re not just standing up straighter, you’re literally feeling more confident and less anxious from the inside. That’s why you feel better when you stand up taller. You start carrying yourself differently without even thinking about it. You take up space in a room naturally. And people notice that shift immediately, even if they can’t put their finger on what’s different about you. You exude, what you feel or trick yourself into feeling.
Hobby #4 Modeling!
Whether you’re just practicing poses in your mirror or you’re actually booking gigs, modeling trains your brain to be comfortable being looked at. Fun facttttt. I wish I had pictures, but when I was a kid, there was a store called Fashion Bug and every Saturday they had a fashion show for little girls. Like you’d buy the look and get to model it. That’s where my delusion and love for popstar pants began. I was booked! Every Saturday.
Most of us have this instinct where when people stare at us, we get nervous, our brain thinks it’s a threat. But when you practice being seen, being watched, holding poses, making eye contact with a camera, you’re teaching your brain that attention isn’t dangerous.
Over time, you genuinely become comfortable being visible.
You can hold eye contact in conversations. You can walk into a room and not shrink. That ease with being seen is what we call presence, and it’s magnetic. You’re not pretending to be confident, your body actually feels safe being looked at. And when you’re comfortable being seen, people want to see you more! Doesn’t hurt that your facial architecture is mwah Chef’s kiss.
#5 Perfume “Crafting”
I like fragrance a lot because it helps me stay present, and make memories. It’s like having a playlist with you everywhere you go but the playlist is the scent. Scent goes straight to the emotional part of your brain, bypassing all the logical thinking parts. So when you’re intentionally layering your scents like my go to fall combo Elie Saab Girl of Now with Black Opium and Pistachio Crème body milk over Cookie Butter body wash and coco body oil, you’re not just smelling good. You’re creating a memory in people’s brains that’s tied to emotion, not logic.
People might forget what you talked about or what you wore, but they’ll remember how they felt around you, and your scent is part of that feeling. You’re literally designing the vibe you want people to experience when they’re near you. Maybe it’s the artist in you idk. And the fact that you’re thinking about the experience you create for others? That intentionality is attractive on its own. Be intentional with this for a week and see how people respond to you.
Hobby #6 Painting (anything)
When you paint, you’re letting your mind wander in a way that doesn’t happen when you’re scrolling or watching something. You’re accessing the part of your brain that daydreams, that creates, that thinks original thoughts. And people are so drawn to that. There’s something about being around someone who has a rich inner world, who’s clearly creating things from within themselves rather than just consuming what everyone else is consuming, and reading what everyone else is reading.
Plus, the more you create, the more flexible your brain becomes, you get better at trying new things, at being okay with not knowing how something will turn out. That openness to the unknown is attractive because most people are terrified of it.
Hobby #7 Walking
This one seems basic but it’s actually so powerful. When you go for walks, especially aimless ones where you’re not trying to get somewhere, just walking, your brain does has time to processes emotions and creates new brain cells. Like, literally new cells.
I don’t need to tell you why this one is a hobby, a lifestyle, a way of being, because you already know how hot you get when you get your steps in.
TL;DR feeling good = being perceived as attractive.
Being attractive has nothing to do with how you look, and everything to do with how you feel. Feel good, attract good. Look good, attract good looking. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and super subjective. The most beautiful things are beautiful to us because of how they make us feel. Make yourself feel good.
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