Fate Loves A Moving Target

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Feb 23, 2026

Good morning gorgeous, here’s what we got going on today. ♡

Your Daily Prayer

Lord, help me to not bring condemnation into my life by the words I speak. I don’t want to bring judgment upon myself by foolish or careless things I say. Instead, help me to speak words that bring salvation, love, and gladness to others. Teach me to speak positive words about myself and my own life as well. Help me to never speak words that are not glorifying to You or that grieve Your Spirit. Put a guard over my heart and mouth so that my words bring life to me and to others who hear me.

By your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.
Matthew 12:37

You’ll Only Ever Meet the Soulmate You’re Ready For it’s also physics, girl

I was on the phone with my homegirl the other night and she was telling me about this new guy and I swear to God it was the same guy as last time. Different name! Different job! But the same emotional unavailability packaged slightly differently. And I didn’t say anything because she was excited but I was thinking... girl, you keep repeating the pattern today so of course the loop is going to repeat.

No shade to her because she’s probably reading BUT you will only ever meet the soulmate you’re ready for. Here are some reminders should you, I don’t know, be in the same boat and maybe don’t want to repeat what happened last time.

You Haven’t Healed the Thing You’re Not Talking About

That person who hurt you? The one you swear you’re “over”? Your body keeps the score, regretably. Your next relationship is going to trigger every unresolved wound you’ve got. God’s waiting for you to get honest about what’s still bleeding so that He can show you mercy and heal you once and for all.

You lowkeyzee may not know what you actually want

Not what looks good on a tiktok slideshow. Not “soulmate-coded.” What do YOU want. If nobody was watching and there was no mood board to curate, what does love look like for you specifically?

Because your person is someone who gets you, which means you have to idk be you first. Go get obsessed with your own life for a while. Fate loves a moving target.

You keep choosing comfortable

Real love asks you to be bigger than you’ve been. If you’re performing, shrinking, going along with things because it’s easier than being honest, you’re not ready for someone who actually sees you. That kind of love is terrifying. That’s the whole point.

Your standards are attached to your insecurity

You want “tall rich spiritual” but honestly that’s a checklist designed to prove you’re worthy, not to find someone who’s good. When you know your worth your standards shift from what he brings to the table to who he actually is when the table’s empty. And somehow that’s when the right people start showing up. I don’t fully understand it either but I’ve watched it happen too many times to question it.

Your soulmate is on the other side of your growth. Pick one thing. Therapy, a journal, a hard conversation, the Bible?? Start there.