7 Questions I Asked Myself That Actually Changed My Life
a practical guide to living the life of your dreams (really)
Thought I’d try something a lil different this weeeeeeeeeeKKKKKK!!!!!
Wake up girl it’s the seventh (7!) month of 2025. Y’all know I’m good for it so we're about to map out the next 6 months to 3 YEARS of your life and I want you EXCITED about it.
But first, let me tell you something that's going to change how you think about this whole thing...
You will always go where you’re thinking !!
For real though,. you always go where you're thinking. That's why God gives you vision in the first place. Because vision is what drives a person forward.
You have to have a picture of where you're going. Even if it's just for the next 6 months, even if it's just for the next few years, even if it's just for tomorrow... today... you need a vision.
And look, usually people rely on the vision they set at the beginning of the year. Which is good! But it's always great to fine-tune. The best way to fine-tune is to intentionally by having something physical that you can print or reference regularly.
Whyyyy am i sharing this with you
I have this process that I've been using for years, and I just recently went back and looked at this vision deck that I did in 2022...
Y'all. Half of the stuff in it has come true already. Is already my reality. Is already how I live.
When I filled it out in 2022, I was nowhere near any of it. Like, not even halfway. A lot of what I put in there about the morning routine, the night routine, what I do for work... it's all true now.
So I have no doubt about the rest of it.
And I wanted to share it with you because if it worked for me when I was nowhere near ready... imagine what it can do for you.
🌺🌴7 questions for month 7🍹🥭
Here are the 7 questions I asked myself. For the 7th month of the year. Because there are 7 things you HAVE to have a vision for or else you're not gonna live the life you wanna live.
QUESTION 1: WHAT'S YOUR MINDSET?
Positive phrases that motivate me to accomplish my goals
Write down 5 empowering beliefs that will fuel your next 6 months.
QUESTION 2: HOW DO YOU WANT TO FEEL?
The feelings I want to experience most in my life
Choose 8 core feelings you want to cultivate:
QUESTION 3: WHAT ARE YOUR HABITS?
Small actions I'll take to become who I imagine becoming
DAILY?
WEEKLY?
BI-WEEKLY?
MONTHLY?
QUESTION 4: WHAT'S YOUR MORNING ROUTINE?
What I'll do every morning to feel my best?
QUESTION 5: WHAT'S YOUR NIGHT ROUTINE?
What I do every evening to feel my best?
QUESTION 6: WHO ARE YOU BECOMING?
Who I need to become to achieve my goals
List 6 identity traits of your future self:
Ask yourself: How would this person think, act, and make decisions?
QUESTION 7: WHAT DO YOU ACTUALLY NEED?
What's necessary in my career, relationships, and life to feel secure
In Relationships
In Career/Work
In Daily Life
🌟 BONUS SECTIONS 🌟
MY PURPOSE
My unique calling and how I want to serve
What I'm called to do:
How I want to impact others:
Financial goals supporting this vision:
HOW I WANT TO LOOK & FEEL
How I want to express myself outwardly
Style words (3-5 words)
Fitness/health goals
Self-care priorities
WHERE I WANT TO LIVE
My ideal environment
Home environment:
Ideal location:
Travel dreams:
MY INVESTMENTS
What I'm willing to invest in to reach my goals
Education/Skills
Health/Wellness
Personal Development
WHERE I'LL BE
Locations and communities that align with my goals
Regular activities/classes
Events/conferences
Communities to join
YOUR ACTION PLAN
Be honestttt which section made you realize you've been avoiding something?
Next 30 Days
What are 3 specific actions you'll take this month?
By End of Year
What are 3 major milestones you want to reach?
HOW TO USE THIS GUIDE
Print this out and put it somewhere you'll see it every day
Schedule your habits into your calendar like important appointments
Visualize daily - spend 5-10 minutes each morning seeing yourself living this life
Check in monthly - what's working? What needs adjustment?
Trust the process - the woman you're becoming is already inside you
And smile. It’s only up from here Queenie!!
Love you,
Zozo